I cleared ond reopened everything and can't login. It says that I have successfully logged in then when I return to the front page it shows that I am not.
I just logged in to your forums (you can remove me, I logged in as test). So it's a cookie issue, no doubts about that. Try to remove your cookies from the Tools->Internet Options->General tab.
Maybe clear your cache also. Then close all browser windows and try again, you know the drill.
On another issue, make sure that you have the latest bug fixes. Posting links to forums now can be a security risk if you don't have the latest security fixes.
The site itself is behind a Linksys 1 port router w/5 port hub on cable network. I have the domain sitting on dns2go pointing @ my IP. Everything with this service has ran normally.
The DMZ is set on the webserver as well.
The site is on 3mbit download, 128k upload, but seems to load allright.