I tried this but EVERY request forwards to 8080.
<%
select case Request.QueryString("")
	case "http://carefreecomputing.net"
		If Request.ServerVariables("SERVER_PORT")=80 then 
                	strSecureURL = "https://"
			strSecureURL = strSecureURL & Request.ServerVariables("SERVER_NAME")
			strSecureURL = strSecureURL & Request.ServerVariables("URL")
			if request.Querystring <> "" then
				strSecureURL = strSecureURL & "?" & request.Querystring
			end if
			Response.Redirect strSecureURL
		End If
	case "http://othersite.com"
		response.redirect("http://carefreecomputing.net:8080")
	case else
		response.redirect("http://carefreecomputing.net:8080")
end select
%>
The reason for the if/then routine is to allow indexing.  Indexing will not occur with a secured site, this routine SHOULD redirect a browser to use SSL and allow an indexing spider to use port 80.  
Using this code has the same effect (so it's not in the spider routine)<%
select case Request.QueryString("")
	case "http://carefreecomputing.net"
		Response.Redirect("https://carefreecomputing.net")
	case "http://othersite.com"
		response.redirect("http://carefreecomputing.net:8080")
	case else
		response.redirect("http://carefreecomputing.net:8080")
end select
%>
However, since I haven't got the bugs out of the querystring object, it's a moot point.  It looks like QueryString comes up empty all the time, regardless of what's typed in the browser address bar.
Edit
Figured it out using a different approach.
Instead of QueryString, I did this:
<% select case Request.ServerVariables("server_name")
	case "carefreecomputing.net"
		If Request.ServerVariables("SERVER_PORT")=80 then 
                	strSecureURL = "https://"
			strSecureURL = strSecureURL & Request.ServerVariables("SERVER_NAME")
			strSecureURL = strSecureURL & Request.ServerVariables("URL")
			if request.Querystring <> "" then
				strSecureURL = strSecureURL & "?" & request.Querystring
			end if
		End If
		response.redirect("https://carefreecomputing.net/index.htm")
	case "othersite.com"
		response.redirect("http://carefreecomputing.net:8080")
	case else
		response.redirect("https://carefreecomputing.net/index.htm")
end select%>