ah!!!!! I wondered about that! thanks matserao!
if you do that you also need to add M_PMRECEIVE into the top part of the page:
'## Ls3k - Get Online Members information, and print whatever we get
strSql = "SELECT ME.MEMBER_ID, ME.M_NAME, ME.M_AUHIDE, AU.AU_IP, AU.AU_LOGINTIME,
AU.AU_LASTACTIVETIME, AU.AU_LASTPAGE, ME.M_ICQ, ME.M_YAHOO, ME.M_AIM,
ME.M_MSN, ME.M_LEVEL, AU.AU_QUERYSTRING, M_PMRECEIVE, AU.AU_USER_AGENT " & _