I have installed PM 3.4.3 / PM Pager but When 1 user want to register at my forum after registered , He/She has to go PM options and They see always PM options Currently Disabled..
you should have posted this on the MOD implenentation forum and to change default options, you need to change the default value for that field directly in the database. if you can't access the database, ask me and i'll post a DBS file for you
PM's are enabled by default. Try it. Go to my site, register, look at your PM options. You will notice they are "enabled" by default. My super powers do not include fixing what isn't broken