Q1. these are all the places that fetch/save the value (although you could simply turn it off in the forum, it is not required and can be removed from profile under admin options
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\inc_create_forum_mssql.asp (2 hits)
	Line 129: 	strSql = strSql & "M_SEX " & strN & "varchar (50) NULL CONSTRAINT " & strTablePrefix & "SnitzC0372 DEFAULT '' , "
	Line 182: 	strSql = strSql & "M_SEX " & strN & "varchar (50) NULL DEFAULT '' , "
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\inc_create_forum_mysql.asp (2 hits)
	Line 158: 	strSql = strSql & "M_SEX VARCHAR (50) DEFAULT '' , "
	Line 218: 	strSql = strSql & "M_SEX VARCHAR (50) DEFAULT '' , "
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\inc_profile.asp (3 hits)
	Line 490: 			if rs("M_SEX") = "" then Response.Write(" selected")
	Line 497: 			if rs("M_SEX") = "Male" then Response.Write(" selected")
	Line 502: 			if rs("M_SEX") = "Female" then Response.Write(" selected")
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\pop_lock.asp (1 hit)
	Line 172: 				strSql = strSql & " M_MSN = '', M_YAHOO = '', M_FIRSTNAME = '', M_LASTNAME = '', M_OCCUPATION = '', M_SEX = '', "
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\pop_profile.asp (7 hits)
	Line 193: 		strsql = strsql & ", " & strMemberTablePrefix & "MEMBERS.M_SEX"
	Line 569: 			if (strSex = "1" and Trim(rs("M_SEX")) <> "") then
	Line 572: 						"                      <td bgColor=""" & strPopUpTableColor & """><font face=""" & strDefaultFontFace & """ size=""" & strDefaultFontSize & """>" & ChkString(rs("M_SEX"), "display") & "</font></td>" & vbNewLine & _
	Line 831: 		strsql = strsql & ", " & strMemberTablePrefix & "MEMBERS.M_SEX"
	Line 963: 				strsql = strsql & ", " & strMemberTablePrefix & "MEMBERS.M_SEX"
	Line 1368: 				strSql = strsql & ",	M_SEX = '" & ChkString(Request.Form("Sex"),"SQLString") & "'"
	Line 1721: 						strSql = strsql & ", M_SEX = '" & chkString(Request.Form("Sex"),"SQLString") & "'" 
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\pop_profile_pending.asp (3 hits)
	Line 128: 		strsql = strsql & ", " & strMemberTablePrefix & "MEMBERS_PENDING.M_SEX"
	Line 413: 			if (strSex = "1" and Trim(rs("M_SEX")) <> "") then
	Line 416: 					"		<td bgColor=""" & strPopUpTableColor & """><font face=""" & strDefaultFontFace & """ size=""" & strDefaultFontSize & """>" & ChkString(rs("M_SEX"), "display") & "</font></td>" & vbNewLine & _
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\register.asp (4 hits)
	Line 86: 			 ", M_FIRSTNAME, M_LASTNAME, M_CITY, M_STATE, M_PHOTO_URL, M_LINK1, M_LINK2, M_AGE, M_DOB, M_MARSTATUS, M_SEX, M_OCCUPATION" & _
	Line 137: 			strSql = strsql & ", M_SEX"
	Line 177: 			strSql = strSql & ", '" & chkString(rsKey("M_SEX"),"SQLString") & "'"
	Line 594: 			strSql = strsql & ", M_SEX"
  E:\IISTest\sf2k_v34_07\setup.asp (7 hits)
	Line 148: 	strSql = strSql & "M_FIRSTNAME, M_LASTNAME, M_OCCUPATION, M_SEX, M_AGE, M_HOBBIES, M_LNEWS, M_QUOTE, M_BIO, "
	Line 162: 	strSql = strSql & "M_FIRSTNAME, M_LASTNAME, M_OCCUPATION, M_SEX, M_AGE, M_HOBBIES, M_LNEWS, M_QUOTE, M_BIO, "
	Line 724: 			NewColumns2(3, FieldName) = "M_SEX"
	Line 2863: 			SpecialSql8(Access) = SpecialSql8(Access) & "M_SEX text (50) NULL , "
	Line 2913: 			SpecialSql8(SQL6) = SpecialSql8(SQL6) & "M_SEX varchar (50) NULL , "
	Line 2963: 			SpecialSql8(SQL7) = SpecialSql8(SQL7) & "M_SEX nvarchar (50) NULL , "
	Line 3013: 			SpecialSql8(MySql) = SpecialSql8(MySql) & "M_SEX varchar (50) NULL , "